frequently asked questions

“If it is the dirty element that gives pleasure to the act of lust, then the dirtier it is, the more pleasurable it is bound to be.”

― Marquis de Sade

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If your question isn’t answered below, send me a message or book a discovery call to discuss what you would like out of your booking before you commit.

Getting Ready for your Experience

I recommend reading the Etiquette page to get to know what to expect first, but here are some key points:

1. With your partner, talk about your expectations and boundaries, and anything you’d like to explore or try in your session.

2. If you have booked an outcall (appointments that take place outside of my apartment), ensure you have booked a hotel room, and let me know the address of the hotel and room number.

3. Personal hygiene is crucial. Please take a shower before your appointment to ensure a fresh and pleasant interaction. This is a standard expectation in escort services.

4. Carmen operates on a cash-only basis. Prepare the agreed-upon amount in advance to avoid any awkwardness or delays. 

5. If you enjoy using specific items during your time together, make sure they are clean and ready for use. I will bring condoms, lube, and her own toys, but if there are any particular condoms/lube/toys that you like, you are welcome to bring those too.

Knowing and establishing your own boundaries can be confusing, especially if this is new for you. Some things to ask yourself (and your partner) are:

  • What am I comfortable doing with another woman?
  • What am I comfortable watching my partner do with another woman?
  • Where do I like/not like being touched or kissed on my body?
  • What fantasies or ideas would I like to try out with a partner and another woman?

 

Rest assured, we will have an open conversation at the start of the booking too so you can talk through things then. If you’re wanting to talk before committing to a booking, you can book a discovery call here.

 

Anything that makes you feel good! For some that is classy evening wear with their best underwear/lingerie under, and for others it’s sweatpants and jumper with their comfiest underwear. I generally wear either nice jeans or a smart dress with heels or sneakers. You are welcome to request that I wear a specific style (such as jeans and sneakers, or cocktail dress with heels) if it makes you feel more discreet and comfortable.

If you are having an outcall to a hotel, I will meet either one or both of you in the lobby or outside

If you opt for an incall, upon your arrival, I will send you the entry instructions to come up to the apartment.

Upon arrival, please present the correct amount of cash to begin the booking swiftly and smoothly.

Bookings usually begin with a friendly, clothed chat, either on the bed or on a sofa, to break the ice and get to know each other. Sometimes, clients choose to share a bottle of wine if they provide. As the booking progresses, things will naturally begin to take a sexier turn. Depending on your preference, you may stay where you are or move to the bed. I always keep my “bag of tricks” nearby, ensuring that lube, condoms, and toys are readily available for your pleasure and safety.

Depending on the nature and preferences of the couple, some bookings may feature only brief periods of intimacy, some may continue through the whole booking, and others may vary throughout the session.

I have a good sense of time and will discreetly check the time as the session nears the end.

Around 15 minutes before the end of the booking, I will begin to wrap things up, ensuring there is a smooth transition back to normalcy. Around 5 minutes before the end, I will start to get dressed, ensuring the session concludes comfortably and on schedule.

Consent is freely given and retractable at any time.

I am very experienced and intuitive, and will regularly check in to ensure everyone’s enthusiastic and ongoing consent. If anyone does become uncomfortable – for whatever reason – we will immediately pause and discuss any necessary adjustments to make the experience enjoyable and safe for everyone involved.

Yes – this is what the Discovery Call is for. I will meet you on Zoom for a relaxed 15-minute chat to discuss your desires, boundaries, and answer your questions about the experience. This call requires a $50 deposit, which can be credited towards your first booking.

Booking & Practicalities

Cash only. Unfortunately for security reasons, I cannot take bank transfers or card payments.

I do not carry change, so please bring the exact amount (unless of course, you want to offer a tip!)

If you are interested in any extras, please also bring enough cash to cover these too if they arise during the booking.

I offer both in-call and out-call options.

If you choose in-call, I will meet you at my discreet apartment in the upper CBD area. There is ample parking nearby and the entry process is simple and discreet.

If you opt for an out-call, please book a hotel room for your session to take place.

My availability varies week by week. Evenings usually work best, but send a message through with your preferred days and times (ideally 24 hours in advance) and I will endeavour to make it work.

For safety reasons, I will not come to Airbnbs, motels, or motor lodges on your first booking. On subsequent bookings, I can meet you at your private residence or Airbnb, at my discretion.

I offer a variety of booking durations to cater to clients’ varying needs and preferences. Here are the options available and what you can expect from each:

1 Hour: This is perfect for those looking for a short, intense session focused primarily on physical connection. It’s ideal for clients who are pressed for time or prefer a quicker, no-frills experience.

2 Hours: If you prefer to spend some time socializing and getting to know each other before moving to more intimate activities, a 2-hour booking is ideal. This duration allows for meaningful conversation and creates a more relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere.

3 Hours: For a more extended, luxurious experience, a 3-hour booking is recommended. This option is perfect for those who want to engage in multiple rounds of intimacy with ample time to relax and chill out in between. It ensures a deep, satisfying session where you can fully enjoy each other’s company without feeling rushed.

1.5, 2.5, and 3.5 hour bookings are also available, if you need just a little extra time.

As much as we all love surprising our loved one, I will not confirm a booking unless both partners are aware and consent to it. If you still want to surprise them, here is a “voucher” which you can print out and surprise them with before you make a booking together!

As a guide, I only offer the services as listed on the Services page, as well as paid extras. I do not currently offer anal play on myself or nipple play on myself.

I do not provide any natural (condomless) services. Any request for these services will result in the cancellation or abrupt ending of a booking with no refund provided.

You are welcome to get in touch to discuss any particular services or anything that isn’t already mentioned on the Services page.

While a deposit isn’t required at present, please adhere to the following guidelines to ensure your booking stays on track.

A confirmation text will be sent out 12 hours before the booking asking you to confirm. If you do not reply within the hour, your booking will be cancelled.

Additionally, if the hotel room number isn’t shared 1 hour prior to the booking start time, the booking will also be considered cancelled.

In either case, in order to reschedule your booking, a deposit of 20% will be required.

Discovery call deposits are non-refundable, although the calls can be rescheduled.

If you do need to cancel or reschedule your booking, at least 12 hours notice is appreciated.

Health, Safety & Inclusivity

Escorts are professionals who understand the importance of maintaining clear boundaries and safety.

Booking an escort for a threesome is a great way to explore your bisexuality or non-monogamy without the risk of awkwardness, ruining friendships, or catching feelings.

Unlike mutual friends, who can introduce emotional complications, escorts remain neutral, focusing solely on providing a pleasurable experience. Additionally, escorts prioritize health and safety, often undergoing regular health checks and adhering to safe sex practices. Their experience and expertise can enhance the threesome, ensuring it is enjoyable for both partners.

With my professionalism, experience, and passion, you can confidently explore your fantasies with confidence and discretion.

Yes, I am committed to inclusivity and am a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community. As a bisexual individual and a dedicated ally to the genderqueer community, I am more than happy to provide my services to couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities – whether you are in a lesbian, genderqueer, or straight relationship. My professional practice is built on respect, understanding, and consent.

It’s absolutely normal to feel nervous. Rest assured, I was probably just as nervous as you are when she met her first couple! My approach is non-judgemental, discreet, and welcoming. With years of experience, I am natural at making my clients feel safe and comfortable.

Typically, your first booking will begin with friendly chat, and sometimes a bottle of wine, to create a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere. I will take the time to get to know you both and understand your desires, ensuring you both feel at ease. This initial conversation sets the stage for an exciting and memorable experience.

If you would like to have a chat before making a booking, feel free to book in a discovery call.

I get regular comprehensive sexual health screenings to ensure I am healthy and clear of any illness or infection. It is strongly recommended that both you and your partner also get tested at least 2 weeks before your booking, especially if you have been having sex with other people. You can find your local clinic here: https://www.healthysex.nz/GetTested/

I strictly adhere to safe sex practices and does not offer any natural (condomless) services. While you and your partner are welcome to perform natural sex on each other during the booking, any suggestion/pressure for me to perform services without a condom will result in the booking ending abruptly with no refund.

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